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 "Puuussshh! O.K.
Breath. Puuusshhh! I see the head. One more push! " I
can still hear the nurse's voice in my head. " Oh, he has a cleft lip...and palate", she
said with such disappointment. My eyes filled with tears
as I suddenly recalled my husbands words from
just a few weeks before. "I don't know what I
would do If anything was wrong with our child. I don't
know if I could handle it. " Without seeing my
child's face, I knew that, as a mother, my love
would be unconditional. But how would my husband react, a
military officer who constantly demands perfection in
himself and everyone around him ? How would the
rest of the world react? To me, my child was
already beautiful in every way. I knew however,
that to the rest of the world, a child with a hole in his
face is anything but beautiful. The answer to my first
question came quickly. As soon as our son was delivered,
my husband embraced him with every ounce of love in his
body. The answer to my next question came two weeks
later. Grant had just undergone his cleft lip/palate
repair surgery and as I looked at him, my eyes filled
with tears again. Now he was beautiful to the rest of the
world, ready to face any challenge with the opportunities
that every child deserves
Less than 24 hours after surgery, Grant was breast feeding. His survival instincts at that age to eat, overcame the pain caused by his stitches. Over the next 18 months, Grant's recovery was wonderful. His scar became almost invisible, his teeth arrived (a little crooked) but they were all there, and tubes were inserted into his ears to reduce sinus and ear infections.
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When Grant
was born, he was diagnosed with a significant left
unilateral cleft of his lip and alveolus. Although his
palate appeared to be intact, it was relatively short
with a submucous cleft. If not corrected it would lead to
future speech problems. We knew he would require surgery,
but when, by whom, and to what extent was all unknown to
us. His father is a member of the United States Navy and
surgery would normally be scheduled somewhere after three
months of age in a military hospital. However, with the
right timing and a little luck, Grant's surgery was
performed at sixteen days old by Dr. Magee one of the
finest cleft lip/palate surgeons in the world.
Grant's
second surgery will be outpatient surgery at 19 months to
reduce the scaring and adjust his nose The future is
bright. There is the possibility of speech therapy and
more surgery to allow his permanent teeth to grow in, but
our family is not concerned. Grant is a beautiful boy who
is considered one of the happiest in his day care class.
People continually remark at the permanent smile on his
face. Thanks.
